This year is the first year that my support group is heading
a “Transgender Day of Remembrance” (TDoR) event. We’re working hard to make it a community
involved event. We've come such a long way in such a short amount of time. Just
a year and a half ago we didn't know anyone in town and had no connections to
the LGBTQ community. We started our support group and have worked hard to be a
presence and a part of the larger community. I tried to get the group to create
a TDoR event last year but since we’re somewhat democratic, the group didn't really want to create one. I was upset at the time because I feel it’s our duty
to remember those that we've lost, and lead the way in such an event. Looking
back however; I’m really glad that we didn't plan an event last year. We didn't have any connections with anyone, and didn't have a large enough group (or
funds) to create a successful, well attended event.
This year we've been planning and thinking since PRIDE back
in June. Not “officially” but really thinking about it critically and working
toward it. Yesterday was our first planning meeting and while I wish we didn't have to plan any such event…I’m excited for the opportunity to step up and
create something that will bring awareness and education. We've gotten some
great support from local organizations and I’m so happy that they want to help
create this event, and work with us to make it successful.
We will have some speaking, a reading of names of those we've lost and then some educational games. We’re planning to have food and drinks
and hopefully people will mix and meet each other. There’s often so much segregation
between schools, different organizations, different orientations and genders…and
I really seek to bridge that. I believe this event can work toward that goal.
At least help us take one step.
